LIVING LIFE YOUR WAY

Are you living your life the way you want to ?. Are you depending on someone too much for every decision that you make ?.Are you constantly seeking the approval of others for things that you do ? Do you always think about what people might say before you buy something even though you like it ? If you said yes to any of the above you are not “ LIVING LIFE YOUR WAY ” .This kind of life is not the best,because you are never being yourself. You are not the individual you were created to be, you are being a FOLLOWER. LEADERS do not behave this way,LEADERS do what they want to do and if you want to follow that’s up to you and if you don’t well that’s okay too.When you live your life this way you are constantly bound to the opinion of others and if you really want to live a free life you won’t care what others think.As long as you know that you are doing the best you can do for you and your family it shouldn’t matter what other people think.

Don’t allow yourself to fall in the trap of trusting your friends more than you trust yourself,sometimes your friends really don’t want to see you excel,so they will say and do things to keep you down with them,even though you know that particular thing maybe right for you.What is good for you will not always be good for them.You have to weigh the pro’s and cons of the situation and make up your own mind.Sometimes you may even lose some of your friends when you are forced to take a stand for yourself and say what you truly feel. I think it’s far better to live life by your own rules and not follow the rules of someone else. Never try to please people too much,cause if you live your life that way people will catch on and they will try to take advantage of your kindness.A lot of people out there take kindness for weakness,they don’t understand when people are being genuine and are trying to help them,they only see an opportunity to try and take advantage of a situation.Sometimes you have to please yourself and not care what people think or say.Some of the people you are going out of your way for,if you really check it out they would never go out of their way for you,but sometimes you want to be their friend so much that you lose yourself and become their personal slave without even realizing what you’re doing.(A lot of fellas fall victim to some females this way and a lot of ladies fall victim to the fellas this way.)

NEVER WASTE YOUR TIME ON A PERSON WHO IS NOT WILLING TO WASTE THEIR TIME ON YOU. You’re too old for that,this is not primary school or High School you are an adult and you should behave like one.Don’t waste your time trying to win someone over who isn’t even giving you the time of day.There are a lot of people out there who are willing to accept you as you are.Without you having to transform into someone you’re not everytime they come around.You will just have to accept the fact that not everybody is going to like you.If you are in a relationship and every day things are bright and beautiful and you never argue with your mate and you’re constantly walking on egg shells to keep that person happy.That relationship is superficial because you are not free to be yourself. THE GREATEST PERSON YOU CAN BE IS YOURSELF.because there is no one like you. Be yourself and stop following the crowd. We should all try to “LIVE LIFE OUR WAY”. So at the end of the day we can sing like Frank Sinatra and say “ I DID IT MY WAY.” Never let people control your life,if you do you’re going to have a long hard life.