Have you been holding yourself back from a new beginning? Have you been holding on to grudges and pains of the past ? Have you been trying to move on but for some reason you don’t know why you haven’t been able to move on with your life ? Well let me tell you why. Until you totally let go of the past and stop looking back at who did you wrong and who hurt you, you will never move on and be totally free of the pains of the past. If you can’t find it in your heart to forgive and forget, you will only be hurting yourself. I can bet you that whoever it was that hurt you probably doesn’t even remember what they did, but everyday you walk around with that hurt deep inside you, poisoning the good that wants to come out,. You are bleeding internally and if you do not do what it takes to stop that bleeding by forgiving those that hurt you, that hurt will eventually make you bleed to death. Maybe not a physical death, but you’ll be walking around everyday feeling down and out, if you ask me that’s just as good as being dead. Stop holding to these pains, life is too short to live like that all the days of your life, Yes it was painful I agree, and you probably can give me a hundred reasons why you should hold on to this pain and anger, but let me tell you this for your own good, forgive them and move on. Not everyone is going to hurt you. Stop holding yourself back from the good things that are waiting to happen. Just learn from your experience and use it the next time around to spot any irregularities fast to help you should the situation arise. Dust yourself off and try again.
There are some of you that won’t even try to get back in relationships with other people because of hurt from past relationships and you won’t even try to start something new. You repeat these toxic statements to yourself for eg. “ They’re all the same “,” I can’t be bothered with the stress “,” All men are dogs”, ”All women are bitches” and so on, but these are not true statements everybody is different. Get to know a person, not everyone is out to get you. Some of you probably tried your hand at business and probably got burned in a business deal and you refuse to try again, let me tell you ,every successful business man will tell you that they made some mistakes at first even still do sometimes today, but they never gave up. Some of us give up too easily, but if we want anything good in life, its not going to come easily, you’ve got to work hard at it and pay your dues. Let go of the past, stop looking in your rear view mirror, a great future is waiting for you, don’t let your mistakes from the past affect your future learn from it and move on. Hold your head up. Stick your chest out and be proud of who you are, after all you’ve been through you’re still here, whatever you’ve been through you are now stronger and wiser. A NEW BEGINNING is waiting for you, let go of the past and move forward, get a fresh start.
